Mr Tablecloth

Mr 4 is quite polite, but I like it:
- Stop talking throughout the meal
- Go to the bathroom before or after meals, not during each meal
- Eat!

Mr. 7 is totally disorganized and can not stay one minute, and end up with food all her strength, table and floor. all the meals I will seek to:
- Sit in the middle of its head
- Facing the table
- Chew your mouth closed
use cutlery -: do not take food with your fingers, and not lick the plate
- Use a towel, not a sheet or shirt

It is annoying and embarrassing. I do not want to go out in public - I can not even stand it at home! - With him, wiping his hands around and make sounds disgusting chewing.

I know I can not wait all ways at once, but one or two would be good. HOW????

try to give them food easy to eat, then just remind them how to eat politely. Praise every time they do it your way. take one day to ask what your child wants for dinner and make a deal with a child of 7 years if I do that u show me how good u can be at the table. and praise him if hes good maybe he just needs to be re-taught or is it because your up tight about it. I also took the plate away if they were licking and requested that the proper way to eat and let them answer and then say it back ok lets try to eat the right way. Just keep your cool and try again so that it is better to do at each meal not only the dinner. make a table and for about a day, they r good ways to use a dinner as a reward and say something like OK here's the real deal lets see if we can show what we learn at home . I had 3 under 5 with some of these problems, including food fights and crawling across the table at hand to take food off each others plate. now 5, 7 and 9, they are great. table and is the ideal time to communicate with your children.

Hey ... I think you re tighter than the muscles lighten Mr. Cleans are children ... they will learn that you get them in their lives.

You tell them to go to the bathroom before you sit down to eat.

The first day, before serving the meal, you tell them that this meal ahead, it will be different.
You instruct them specifically what you disagree with and what you expect of them before serving the food.
You can also tell them that if they do not behave like humans at the table, they will be sent directly to bed for the night. Period.
And then you stick to it!

Day 2, you sit down to eat.
The first time one of them slips up, they get a warning. The second time they go to bed for the rest of the night ... no dinner.
They can cry and whine and cry ... Well. They will not starve during the night.

Day 3, Day 2.

It will eventually sink in. .. as long as you do not give in.

If they continue to act like animals at the table, go to the dollar store and buy a bowl to each of them and see how they like having their dinner served in a bowl dog on the ground.

These children are old enough to know better. They do it because you let them get away with it.

The best way to teach them is to clear and understandable rules from the beginning. Review these with each of them individually, then as a group. Ask their opinion, so they feel a little power.

Then explain why it is so important to you.

If a child breaks the rule, send them to their rooms immediately. The dinner ended.

Give them 10 minutes to think about what they did wrong, make sure they apologize and they can finish their dinner.

I know this sounds harsh, but tough love (with correct explanation is essential).

some of those things that children are typical. Ie. the can not sit in the.